'our goal is to get ourselves and as many children as possible to heaven'
So, I know technically this is true, but without the word 'responsibly' in there somewhere, I still cringe.
This simple phrase (and others like it) led me to misunderstand what the Catholic Church teaches about parenthood for many years. I understand now that the Church does teach that we should be open to life, and have as many children as possible, as discerned responsibly, so I understand what the speaker meant. However, if I had heard that sentence just 3 years ago, it would have just reinforced my notions that the Catholic Church was out of touch. Especially since at that time we were shoulder deep in just reasons to not pursue a pregnancy.
I don't disagree with the statement, because I understand that 'as possible' as stated by a Catholic faithful to the magisterium includes responsible parenthood in it. But, when stated in a forum that encourages non-Catholics and fallen-away Catholics to participate, I think as much effort as possible should be made to be crystal clear, and in this case, I think brevity was chosen over clarity.