A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about The Man's and my Just Cause for postponing pregnancy to this point in our marriage. Before I go much further, I feel like I need to add, for those of you who would like nothing more than to conceive, I pray for you daily and I understand that reading this can cause you pain. I apologize and I just ask you to understand that your strong desire for children is just as foreign (no negative connotation in that at all) to me as my postponing pregnancy is to you.
Ever since writing the post, and reading the comments (which were all very kind), and reading a few others' thoughts on having children on other blogs (both posts and comments), I have just felt like I didn't get it right. Or rather, I didn't get it all right. You see, so many of the comments focused on the finances of raising a child (children); for us that's not really even the main issue. I think because of my openness about our finances and our bankruptcy, it is easy to think that finances would be the main reason.
Michelle put it best in a comment when she said: "